HI MY NAME IS SIERRA AND I AM STARTING THIS BLOG TO HELP OUT MY FELLOW PEERS. THIS BLOG WILL CONSIST OF RELATIONSHIP ADVICE, FRIENDSHIP ADVICE, AND INFORMATION ABOUT LIFE. I HOPE THAT SOMETHING HERE HELPS YOU GET TROUGH LIFE EASIER AND CONTINUE TO LIVE, LOVE, AND LAUGH!
We fall down but we get up
We cry than wipe our tears
We hurt but there always something to smile about
Life has a way of throwing you into this game of break it till you make it
not everyone makes it and not everyone gets a chance to get repaired
The simple answers alway come so hard, the difficult issues are always the first thing that are needed to be fixed
The problems that we never want to face are always the one that teach us how to keep going
so if you fall down the good lessons are on the floor where the last person threw it thinking they weren't going to need it
The best thing about life is that its never consistent so you will never stay down for to long!
We are judged by our name, the color of our skin, our last names, our past, the texture of our hair, the color of our eye’s.
If my hair is soft and is silky when ironed I have nice hair but if it is tangled I have nigger hair.
If my eye’s were blue I would be considered pretty and exotic, but if my eye’s are brown I’m just blending in with the rest of the world.
If my past mistakes were made public I must be a hoe.
If my last name if legendary than I have to live up to it.
If my name is hard to pronounce I must be ghetto.
If my skin in darker then I must have less money, no education, no degree, a lot of drama, but if my skin is lighter I must be on the path of sucess, wealth, and aboundance.
BREAKING THE STEREOTYPE AND THROWING YOUR TAGS IN THE TRASH
I’m dark skin, brown eye’s, tangled hair, with a past that isn’t so pleasent and a last name to uphold. In school recieving an education I’m not supposed to have, not dealing with drama that you automatically thought I had, learning from my past mistakes and a first name that was given to me by God.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD PICK YOUR THEORY’S OFF THE FLOOR AND REWRITE……
When has being second ever been fun? Being second is never OK, so why would you settle for being second best. I constantly see this all the time, I see guys and girls not able to get their first choice so they always fall back on lucky number 2 and of course they feel like they should be lucky to have been picked. The worst part is that the person who is picked second to them you are there number one. As much as it seems like a match made perfect its not. That means because you were second option they can always drop you for someone else and it wont be a big deal, your always going to have to fight for your spot in their life because you weren't the number one option in the first place. But have you really thought about it. If you are OK being number two your settling as if you don't deserve to be anyones number one. Well NEWSFLASH we all deserve to be the number one for someone don't degrade your self by allowing yourself to be someones fall back don't lower your standards and accept number two because number one fell through. We are all worth so much more its about time we put that into play. If I'm not number one then you don't get me at all. If I can't have number one I'm going to find someone who is deserving of the number one spot.
Relationships are often taken lightly but their are people who take them extremely serious. Most women get into relationships because they want to get to a long term goal, which might be marriage or to start a family what ever the case is their is most likely a goal they want to reach. We all know communication is the key to any relationship but when you are asked "Where do you see this going" don't you think you should have a response. If you are putting yourself in a relationship it shouldn't be just for the moment. That can seem selfish and a waste of the other persons time and energy. We put so much of our selfs in to the partnership with the other person for them to just think that it is just a fling or a short term thing. I understand men don't communicate very well which is OK most women are willing to work with you but if you can't answer the question "Where is this going" than I have to say maybe you not their for the right reasons. Even though we may hate labels on certain relationships its actually a problem solver, with a label you know exactly what your in and what is to be expected. Don't drag someones heart through the mud without telling them were the destination is. We all hurt and weather we all say "Its whatever" we all feel the hurt of being mislead and walking blindly for no reason.
Days pass and feeling change, the great moments that never last forever. The excitement for someone new that only last for a month. The emotional up and down. Trying to figure out how to love with out getting hurt. The impossible task of never wearing your heart on your sleeve, conditioned to always care you always end up loving or caring. That moment that you feel used and want the pain to end. As much as you claim to be heartless every decision you make have an effect on your heart. Trying to put up a front that ice runs through your vain. How do I love with out pain. Remember without feeling pain you can never know what love is. Love and pain are one in the same and will never be separated. Build a strong tolerance for bullshit and pave a little road to your heart for that one person who really wants to go the whole way.
WE MAKE MISTAKES AND WE DO STUPID THINGS, BUT THAN WE GROW UP AND LOOK BACK AT THEM AND WE THINK WOW, WHY DID I DO THAT. THE BEST THING ABOUT AGE IS THAT YOU GET WISER IF YOU CHOOSE TO LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND MISHAPS. YOUR TASTE IN FRIENDS, MEN, STYLE, CONVERSATION, REASON FOR LIVING CHANGES AND WITH TIME YOU START TO BECOME WHO YOU REALLY ARE. ENJOY YOUR MISTAKES TAKE THE LESSON AND APPLY IT TO YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER. THE EVOLUTION OF THE HUMAN BEING OVERTIME AND WITH AGE IS AMAZING. TAKE A MOMENT TO LOOK AT YOUR LIFE AND THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU HAVE CHANGED IN THE PAST YEAR OR TWO, IF YOU DON'T NOTICE CHANGE MAYBE YOU STILL HAVE SOME GROWING TO DO BUT WE ALL CHANGE IN TIME FOR THE BETTER OR WORST, THATS FOR YOU TO DECIDE.
I'M USUALLY NOT IN THE MOOD TO WRITE MY LIFE STORY, I FIGURED IT MIGHT BE QUIT BORING. I REALIZE THAT I HAVE BEEN LONGING FOR SOMETHING THAT NO ONE ELSE CAN GIVE, SOMETHING THATS ALWAYS BEEN. THE MISPLACEMENT OF MY OWN FEELINGS HAS BEEN THE STORY OF MY LIFE. IN THIS STORY NOT MUCH PAIN AND STRIFE, UNLESS YOU CONSIDER THE SILENCE OF A SOUL TO BE PAINFUL MAYBE THIS STORY WILL GIVE YOU PLEASURE. I AM SLOWLY STOPPING WRITING, JUST THINKING OF PUTTING MY LIFE ON PAPER IS TERRIFYING........
20 MIN LATER.....
BORN IN THE VA RAISED IN THE SAME, BAD KID THAT HAD A PRAYING MOTHER WITH A HARD WORK ETHIC. NEVER SAW THE NEED TO LOOK AT LIFE IN A BIGGER SENSE ONLY SAW THE NEXT VICTIM TO TERRORIZE. TOMBOY ON THE LOSE AND MONSTER TAKING OVER, ALWAYS IN TIME OUT , I GUESS THEY THOUGHT MY LIFE NEEDED TO SLOW DOWN, LITTLE DID THEY KNOW IT WAS JUST 10 MIN OF TIME FOR ME TO FUEL BACK UP AND START AGAIN. TEACHERS DIDN'T GIVE A SHIT AND SAID SHE HOPELESS MY MOTHER NEVER BELIEVED IT. FEW YEARS LATER THEY THOUGHT DRUGGING ME UP WOULD WORK AND CALM THE BEAST INSIDE ME, THE WHITE PILLS SUPPRESSED HIM THE BLUE ZONED MY BODY INTO DEFAULT MODE. THIS CREATED ANGER ON MY SOUL THAT SOMEONE FELT THAT ME BEING ME WAS AN ISSUE TO SOCIETY AND NEEDS TO BE CONTROLLED BY SOMETHING THE PHARMACEUTICAL COMPAY MADE......BULLSHIT
YEARS PASSED OF ANGER BECOMING OUT OF CONTROL, NO ONE WAS SAFE, WALLS GOT FUCKED AND MOMS GOT THE WORST OF IT. NO WORD IN THE DICTIONARY WAS OFF LIMITS IN EXPLAINING THE OUTRAGEOUSNESS OF WHAT CAME OUT OF ME....SLOWLY BECAME THE ANGRY KID, THE GIRL WHO DRESSED IN AN ATTITUDE COLOR OF BLACK. THE HAPPIEST PLACE IN THE WORLD TURNED MY LIFE TO A DEEPER HELL. IN A ROOM BY MYSELF HE CAME IN UNKNOWN AND HAD HIS WAY WITH ME. CONFUSED, ANGRY, SICKENED IT WAS TAKING FROM ME WITHOUT PERMISSION. THE BLOOD BOILED AND EVENTUALLY I WOULD CRASH AND BURN. MY PARENTAL RELATIONSHIP NEVER WORKED AND WAS ALWAYS FUCKED...I THOUGHT PATERNAL PARENTS WERE SUPPOSED TO BE CLOSE...ITS TRUE, IN ANGER I WAS TOLD THAT I WAS SOMEONE ELSE'S MISTAKE THAT SHE TOOK ON WHEN I ENTERED THE WORLD...ADOPTED....DAMN
DISAPPOINTMENT CAME EASY I HANDLED I LIKE A PRO UNTIL THE PPL THAT WERE SUPPOSED TO BE SOLID BECAME SHAKY......LOST IN TRANSLATION I SLID THROUGH THE CRACKS, SEATING IN PITY, DISBELIEF, AND AWESTRUCK FROM THE WAY MY LIFE HAD NO BOUNDARIES OR BORDERS. SLOWLY I BECAUSE A BODY WITH FLESH AND A PULSE BUT NO HEART. NO ONE EVER NOTICED THE FRONT I PUT UP, IT WAS CONVINCING. I WOULD LET PPL IN ONLY TO FIND THAT THEY WOULD SOON MAKE AN EXIT. ALONE AND IGNORED MOMS NEVER HAD TIME FOR FEELINGS, EDUCATION AND WORK WERE HER THERAPY'S AND TALKING WAS HER WEAK POINT, SO NOT BEING ABLE TO CONTROL MY THOUGHTS OF THE EVENTS THAT OCCURRED IN THE EARLY YEARS I TRIED TO TALK TO THE MAN WITH A DEGREE AND CERTIFIABLY ABLE TO FUCK WITH MESSED UP PPL. THAT NIGGA AIN'T DO SHIT FOR THE PROBLEM JUST HELPED THE PHARMACEUTICAL COMPANY BY SELLING SOME MORE OF THERE SHIT...YEAH RIGHT NEVER PLACED THE ORDER.
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LOOKING FOR LOVE BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WAS WHAT WAS HOT IN THE STREETS, NEEDLESS TO SAY I FOUND IT OR DID I. LIFE FELL HARD FAST, MY PRIORITIES WERE SLACKING AND I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT ANYONE NOR MYSELF EXCEPT FOR THIS PERSON. HE WAS LIKE A HEART-ATTACK WAITING TO HAPPEN FOR ME CONSTANTLY NEEDING BYPASS SURGERY TO FIX WHAT COULD NEVER BE REPAIRED TO HAVE YOU RIP IT UP EVEN MORE. THE WORST MISTAKE I MADE WAS NOT LOVING MYSELF ENOUGH TO GET OUT. MORE VOICES IN MY HEAD THAN EVER BEFORE STAY, GO. CONFUSED
BUT HE LOVES ME........
LOVE HAS A WAY OF FILLING THAT EMPTY SPOT IN THE LIVES OF HUMAN BEINGS THAT DON'T FEEL COMPLETE, BUT IT WAS'T THE LOVE OF SOMEONE ELSE THAT I NEEDED BUT THE LOVE FOR MYSELF....... REALIZATION COMES QUICK WHEN YOUR ALREADY ON THE FLOOR. YOU RESPECT YOUR STRUGGLE MORE AND DON'T NEED SOMEONE TO TELL YOU EVERYTHING IS OK. YOU KNOW THAT YOUR GOING TO BE GOOD BECAUSE YOU GOT YOU.
NOW
LOVING ME TO THE FULLEST LOVING MY FRIENDS AND RESPECTING MYSELF NOT TO PUT UP WITH BULL SHIT OR BULL SHIT PEOPLE. DONE WITH GOING BY THE DOUBLE STANDARD OF MEN AND WOMEN I'M JUST AS STRONG AND CAN DO MORE. OVER THE PETTY DRAMA DON'T WANT IT. CURRENTLY TRYING TO EASE THE MONSTER INSIDE OF ME THAT LURKS AROUND WAITING FOR A TIME TO SHOW HIS FACE. INHALING THE GREEN HELPS ME TO CALM HIM. PRAYER KEEPS MY MIND ON WHAT IMPORTANT. FRIENDS KEEP ME GROUNDED. MOMS KEEPS MY ON MY TOES GRANDPA IS MY COMMANDER HE RAISED ME LIKE THE SOLDIER HE WAS . GRANDMA IS THE VOICE IN MY HEAD OF THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC. ME... I AM A COMBINATION OF SPIT FIRE PERSONALITIES AND A MONSTER THAT WANTS TO SHOW HIS FACE.
WALKING DOWN MEMORY LANE MAKES ME WANT TO RUN DOWN THE YELLOW BRICK ROAD TO BETTER TIMES THAT I KNOW IS WAITING FOR ME!!
ARE YOU TIRED OF ATTRACTING THE WRONG GUY? DO YOU EVER WONDER WHY DO I ALWAYS ATTRACT DOUCHE-BAGS, WELL TRUTH IS WHAT YOU GIVE OUT IS WHAT YOU GOING TO GET. IF YOU DRESSING LIKE A LADY OF THE NIGHT YOUR GOING TO GET A GUY WHO JUST WANTS THE SERVICES. IF YOU ARE ALWAYS TALKING BOUT SEX YOUR GOING TO ONLY GET GUYS WHO WANT IT. IF YOU CONSTANTLY KEEP GOING FOR THE ANGRY WOW IS ME TYPE GUESS WHAT YOUR GOING TO GET BEAT IF HE GET ANGRY AND THAN ITS GOING TO BE YOUR FAULT IN HIS BOOK AND HE GOING TO PLAY THE WOW IS ME CARD. SO FOR NOW ON TRY BEING YOU AND STOP TRYING TO BE MORE THAN WHAT YOU ARE, STOP LOOKING ONLY AT THE OUTWARD APPEARANCES AND LOOK AT THE GUYS/GIRL FOR THE INNER GREATNESS THAT IS. YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AT HOW MANY GOOD GUYS/GIRLS THERE ARE IN THE WORLD
WE HOLD ON TO THINGS LIKE WE WILL NEVER GET ANOTHER CHANCE OF HAPPINESS. TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE AND IF WE REALLY BELIEVE THAT WE WONT WASTE TIME HOLDING ON TO OLD DREAMS AND LEFT OVER FANTASY. WHEN IS IT TIME TO LET? WHEN IT STARTS TO GO AGAINST YOUR MORALS, WHEN YOU NOTICE YOUR FIGHTING FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T EXIST ANYMORE, WHEN BELIEVING LIES FILLS UP THE EMPTINESS OF YOUR HEART AND COMFORTS YOU, LET IT GO. WHEN YOU HAVE TO BITE YOUR TONGUE FROM SAYING WHAT IS THE REAL, WHEN YOU ARE CONSTANTLY DEFENDING IN STEAD OF JUST BEING WHAT YOU CLAIM TO BE OR WHAT HAVE. WHAT HAPPENED TO LOVE, IT FLEW AWAY AND NOW ITS TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE SAME.. DON'T SUFFER THE WOMBS OF AN ILL-FATTED LOVE THAT IS NO LONGER WORTH FIGHTING FOR, THESE WOMBS NEVER HEAL!
Life has up's and downs mistakes and good decisions. We have to learn to accept all of our choices. It kills me when people don't do something that they want to do because they think it might be a mistake. How will you know if never try. We sometimes get in the way of our own happiness and blame it on others when we are not happy. Who can you blame for you not doing what you want to do. Mistake are events that are made for use to learn from. If we never made mistakes we would never know who to trust and who not to trust. We wouldn't learn those specific life lesson that can be taught but only learned by living. Life's mistakes are your own personal way of teaching your self how to survive. Take life as it comes don't be afraid to F it up:) you live and learn!!
PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THAT WHEN THEY MEET SOMEONE THE ONE THING THAT CATCHES THEM IS THAT THEIR ATTRACTIVE. RECENTLY I HAVE REALIZED THAT THE OLDER YOU GET YOUR LIST OF REASONS GET DEEPER FOR WHY YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE. WHEN YOUR A TEENAGER ITS ALL ABOUT HE THE CUTEST GUY/GIRL IN SCHOOL EVERYONES LIKE HIM/HER , NOW THAT WE ARE OLDER WE LOOK FOR MORE THINGS LIKE LOVING GOD, HAVING A JOB, BEING IN SCHOOL, NO KIDS, LOVES THEIR MOTHER AND FAMILY , TREATS PEOPLE WITH RESPECT. THE NUMBER ONE THING THAT SHOULD BE ON THE LIST IS A PERSON WITH AMBITION. HAVE YOU EVER MEET SOMEONE WHO WAS SO EXCITED ABOUT LIFE AND HAD PLANS TO DO GREAT THINGS, AND AS SOON AS YOU TWO GOT TOGETHER ALL THE PASSION FOR LIFE DISAPPEARED. WELL YOU ARE NOT ALONE IT HAPPENS TO A LOT OF PEOPLE. INSTEAD OF DATING SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR LOOKS TRY DATING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE QUALITIES THAT AREN'T SURFACE DEEP. AN AMBITIOUS PERSON ALWAYS WANTS TO KEEP REACHING HIGHER LEVELS AND IS ALWAYS TRYING TO MAKE THINGS GREATER. AMBITION IS ONE SEXY QUALITY!!
BREAK UP TO MAKE UP FIGHTING TO F*CKING...EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT THIS IS THE CYCLE MANY RELATIONSHIPS GO THROUGH. HOW MANY TIMES ARE WE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH CONSTANT FIGHTING AND BREAKING UP BUT TWO MINUTES LATER ITS BACK TO NORMAL. IN PAST POST I MENTIONED THAT COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO EVERY RELATIONSHIP WORKING. WELL NOTHING HAS CHANGED ABOUT THAT STATEMENT, IT CRAZY HOW PEOPLE FIGHT BUT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF CONFRONTATION OR REJECTION OR WHAT EVER THEY SWEEP THE PROBLEM UNDER THE RUG. GUESS WHAT ONE DAY YOU GOING TO TRY TO MOVE OUT THE APARTMENT TO A BIGGER HOME AND THE RUG WILL BE ROLLED UP AND THAT DUST UNDER THE RUG WILL STILL BE THERE. NOT SOLVING PROBLEMS WHEN THEY ARE PRESENTED IS LIKE RELATIONSHIP SUICIDE. ITS GOING TO BITE YOU IN THE ASS LATER AND WHEN IT DOES COME LATER THERE WILL BE MORE DUST UNDER THE RUG THAN WHAT WAS THERE BEFORE. WE HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT WE PUT OUR SELVES IN, NO MORE IGNORING THE PROBLEM ATTACK IT DEAD ON. DON'T LEAVE PROBLEMS UNATTENDED NOR SHOULD YOU LET THINGS GO THAT ARE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR YOUR PERSONAL VALUES OR WHAT YOU BELIEVE. IF WE DON'T TAKE CONTROL WE WILL BE IN CONSTANT DENIAL OF WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON AND THAN WHEN ITS OVER REGRET AND RESENTMENT WILL EAT YOU ALIVE. THOSE WHO TAKE CONTROL WILL BE SUCCESSFUL AND THOSE WHO DON'T WILL CONSTANTLY THINK "I WISH I DID IT DIFFERENTLY" !!
THE LOVE OF SELF IS COMMON FOR MOST PEOPLE BUT ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF? THE ARMY SLOGAN IS "BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE". PEOPLE MAY SAY THIS, BUT DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. TAKE A MOMENT AND SIT TO THINK OF HOW MANY TIMES A DAY YOU SAY SOMETHING BAD ABOUT YOURSELF
EXAMPLE:
"MY HAIR LOOKS LIKE SHIT"
"I FEEL I LOOK UGLY IN THIS OUTFIT TODAY"
"I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT SO I CAN LOOK LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS"
"I FEEL UGLY TODAY"
'I'M TO DARK SKIN"
ECT.
WE SPEND MORE TIMES PUTTING OURSELVES DOWN THAN YOU THINK.
HOW CAN SOMEONE LOVE YOU WHEN YOU YOURSELVES HAVE NO LOVE FOR YOU, AT TIMES WE PRIDE OURSELVES ON THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS INSTEAD OF OUR OWN COMMENTS ABOUT OURSELVES. I FIND THAT WOMEN HAVE THIS PROBLEM MORE THAN MEN. WOMEN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM TEND TO VIBE OFF THE COMMENTS OF OTHERS BUT ARE ALWAYS DOWNING THEMSELVES OR THEY ARE IN CONSTANT SEARCH OF APPROVAL OR LOVE TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION.
WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMY, SELF RESPECT STARTS FROM THE HEART AND REALIZING THAT YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT PEOPLE SAY, YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT THAT BOY OR GIRL MAY WANT FROM YOU PSYCHICALLY, YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT SOCIETY TELLS YOU TO WEAR, YOU ARE MORE THAN THE CONSTANT APPROVAL OF OTHERS.
PRIDE AND SELF RESPECT GO A LONG WAY YOU MAY NOT REALIZE BUT THE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ARE THE ONES THAT THRIVE AND MAKE IT TO THE TOP. GET OUT OF THE WAY OF YOU BEING GREAT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE. IF YOU CAN'T LOVE YOURSELF YOU CAN NEVER FULLY UNDERSTAND HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE!
Do you want him/her for money or for love. Security comes in different forms, love, money, physical, or emotional. We do a lot of things based on what comforts us or gives us a sense of security. Do you want to be loved for your money or do you want to be loved for the emotional attributes that you posses. Physical attraction is the one security that most people fall into so easily, we get into relationships because there is such a great physical attraction but then later on down the road you realize that there is no substances to the relationship except physical attraction and than you get bored and want to leave. Most people cheat because they aren't getting the emotional security from there partner. The love of money come into play when someone wants to be kept, or want to portray a certain picture to the public or may have felt that they gave so much in previous relationships that they deserve to live a life of comfort. Take time to understand yourself and what you want, chasing after money can be satisfying and also desolate of emotion. chasing after physical attraction ends with boredom. chasing after love....I don't know I've never tried:)
Men have created the get away card, you may ask what does that mean. Well it's simple the card has a motto that say's (Do No More and No Less). These crafty beautiful creatures of God have done something explosive. Ever wonder why men never get slack from there parents or girlfriends or friends in general its quit simple, they do exactly what there are ask, no more no less. Ever feel that when your brother or boyfriend or friend does what you ask but you still are upset, but than you realize you can't be upset he did everything you asked him to do. It makes you upset because you want them to go above and beyond what was asked. Men are simplistic in there actions but some are very aware of the things and situations around them. They do what they have to do to shut people up or to get out of the situation.
Example:
Girlfriend - Take out the trash
Boyfriend - Ok
(later on that day)
Girlfriend - Why is there trash in the yard? Why didn't you pick up the little pieces that feel out the trash?
Boyfriend - All you asked me to do was to take out the trash and I did that.
As you can see here he did exactly what he was asked no more no less, as the girlfriend get angry and picks up the trash herself. As much as we want men to go above and beyond its not going to happen in every situation. No more no less, it eases stress on yourself and cause havoc for the other person(s). You should try it do no more and no less, give them exactly what they ask for!
In the mind of a women we are complex in ways we can't even understand. It's crazy how when women do what they want they get labeled disrespectful things, but a man is a hero - well times have changed. women have evolved into creature of self karma(CREATING HELL FOR SOMEONE THEY THINK DESERVES IT). Some of us choose to deal with our problems and move on, some don't have the ability to let go of anger they may have towards the opposite sex. We have taken on actions of a men, playing cards and playing men. If you thought it couldn't be done your a fool. Be careful how you treat the women in your life one wrong word or action can cause a rippling effect through the mind of a women. We are just as savage and can play the game twice as great as you men can. If that girl comes your way run in the opposite direction because she might be you demise.
Both men and women are dynamic creatures. We are all made differently and not all things we do will make sense to every one. In relationships we get so caught up in being in love that we ignore the part of the relationship where we are supposed to study our partner to learn there ways, we tend to think that over time we just know each other....WRONG
If you take the time to really focus on each other and build solid ground between each other, over time you will notice that you can see there future movement before they even do it, that is really knowing your partner. Young relationship often falter because both parties tend to get so consumed with being with each other and not really communicating.
Communication is key to any relationship and without it you are just wasting time!!
WELCOME TO THE BLOG OF SIERRA, I'M STARTING THIS BLOG TO HELP OTHERS. UNLIKE MY YOUTUBE AND TUMBLR THIS BLOG IS REALLY FOR THE EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL STATE OF OTHERS. I RECENTLY HAVE BEEN DOING SOME SOUL SEARCHING AND I HAVE REALIZED THAT I HAVE LEARNED A LOT, THIS IS MY WAY OF HELPING OTHER AND IN DOING SO HELPING OTHERS BY GIVING ADVICE ON RELATIONSHIP, FAMILY, LIFE, AND FRIENDS. I HOPE THAT YOU GUYS ENJOY AND LEARN SOMETHING IMPORTANT.
