TRAGEDY OR A GOOD THING

BREAK UP TO MAKE UP FIGHTING TO F*CKING...EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT THIS IS THE CYCLE MANY RELATIONSHIPS GO THROUGH. HOW MANY TIMES ARE WE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH CONSTANT FIGHTING AND BREAKING UP BUT TWO MINUTES LATER ITS BACK TO NORMAL. IN PAST POST I MENTIONED THAT COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO EVERY RELATIONSHIP WORKING. WELL NOTHING HAS CHANGED ABOUT THAT STATEMENT, IT CRAZY HOW PEOPLE FIGHT BUT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF CONFRONTATION OR REJECTION OR WHAT EVER THEY SWEEP THE PROBLEM UNDER THE RUG. GUESS WHAT ONE DAY YOU GOING TO TRY TO MOVE OUT THE APARTMENT TO A BIGGER HOME AND THE RUG WILL BE ROLLED UP AND THAT DUST UNDER THE RUG WILL STILL BE THERE. NOT SOLVING PROBLEMS WHEN THEY ARE PRESENTED IS LIKE RELATIONSHIP SUICIDE. ITS GOING TO BITE YOU IN THE ASS LATER AND WHEN IT DOES COME LATER THERE WILL BE MORE DUST UNDER THE RUG THAN WHAT WAS THERE BEFORE. WE HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT WE PUT OUR SELVES IN, NO MORE IGNORING  THE PROBLEM ATTACK IT DEAD ON. DON'T LEAVE PROBLEMS UNATTENDED NOR SHOULD YOU LET THINGS GO THAT ARE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR YOUR PERSONAL VALUES OR WHAT YOU BELIEVE. IF WE DON'T TAKE CONTROL WE WILL BE IN CONSTANT DENIAL OF WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON AND THAN WHEN ITS OVER REGRET AND RESENTMENT WILL EAT YOU ALIVE.  THOSE WHO TAKE CONTROL WILL BE SUCCESSFUL AND THOSE WHO DON'T WILL CONSTANTLY THINK "I WISH I DID IT DIFFERENTLY" !!