There is a time for Everything

        I noticed the world spends a lot of time trying to fall in love or being a relationship, which is often the distraction that causes us to miss out on great things. I found myself focused so much of love for the past 7 years that I have missed opportunities that could have resulted in money, freedom, peace of mind, and plain just missed out. Well I'm here to say it's something a lot of us do unknowingly. I got tired of always trying to fix a relationship or trying to make the perfect life with someone else or someone trying to form a life for me that I didn't want so I broke the habit of relationship seeking and stressing, its not worth all the drama and headache. 
        As human beings our first priority should be to God and our second should be to family and third the betterment of ourselves. We have to be committed to getting ourselves together, we have to be business minded and willing to take risk to make it to the top professionally and mentally all the other things of life will fall into place. We as a people spend at least 76% of our lives trying to make a relationship or dealing with one or entertaining the thoughts. Lets focus on what is important, lets be about our business and then everything else shall follow. Let us be there for our families, lets give God praise and  live like its our last and make the most of of life. No more wasting precious moments that can not be replaced!!

Loving You

Loving you is easy I haven't had a problem, loving you is destined your everything bad but good. Loving you has changed me for the better with spice. Thinking of the day that I wont love you I never thought at all. If only life was different I could structure this love for good but this love is selfish and disruptive. I have to love change which mean I have to let you go sometimes a love is the one thing that can destroy you

Dear love Ill see you next time around....

Free yourself!!

I have learned that freeing yourself from people is a form of self therapy. I can't descride the amazing feeling of weight being lifted off your shoulders, its only when you resort back to what held you captive does it go wrong. I made the mistakes of going back to the things that held me down, the one thing that mistake taught me was some people don't change they just wear a mask to hide whats still there. Free yourself of dead weight whether it comes in the form of a boyfriend or girlfriend thats not good for you, it could be that friendship that brings you down what ever it may be free youselves of negativity and start to fill those spots with positive energy, ideas,and people

This is going to hurt!!

Its so crazy how we hold on to people as if they sit on a higher level than ourselves. When it really comes down to it we find out who is a real friend and who isnt. They say some people want you to do well just not better than them. Its true  there are people who think with the mind of fear. They allow their fear to stop them from wishing others well.....sad. The cure for this  disease is simple stop putting people above you, excel at your own pace, do not allow the negative thoughts of others become apart of you. Rip the mental bandage off and start to heal and grow beyond your wildest dreams. Greatness comes from within not from the mouth of others!