Enjoy life and the Mistake you make!!

Life has up's and downs mistakes and good decisions. We have to learn to accept all of our choices. It kills me when people don't do something that they want to do because they think it might be a mistake. How will you know if never try. We sometimes get in the way of our own happiness and blame it on others when we are not happy. Who can you blame for you not doing what you want to do. Mistake are events that are made for use to learn from. If we never made mistakes we would never know who to trust and who not to trust. We wouldn't learn those specific life lesson that can be taught but only learned by living. Life's mistakes are your own personal way of teaching your self how to survive. Take life as it comes don't be afraid to F it up:) you live and learn!!

Live, Learn Love Laugh

AMBITION.......NUMBER 1 ATTRACTION

PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THAT WHEN THEY MEET SOMEONE THE ONE THING THAT CATCHES THEM IS THAT THEIR ATTRACTIVE. RECENTLY I HAVE REALIZED THAT THE OLDER YOU GET YOUR LIST OF REASONS GET DEEPER FOR WHY YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE. WHEN YOUR A TEENAGER ITS ALL ABOUT HE THE CUTEST GUY/GIRL IN SCHOOL EVERYONES LIKE HIM/HER , NOW THAT WE ARE OLDER WE LOOK FOR MORE THINGS LIKE LOVING GOD, HAVING A JOB, BEING IN SCHOOL, NO KIDS, LOVES THEIR MOTHER AND FAMILY , TREATS PEOPLE WITH RESPECT. THE NUMBER ONE THING THAT SHOULD BE ON THE LIST IS A PERSON WITH AMBITION. HAVE YOU EVER MEET SOMEONE WHO WAS SO EXCITED ABOUT LIFE AND HAD PLANS TO DO GREAT THINGS, AND AS SOON AS YOU TWO GOT TOGETHER ALL THE PASSION FOR LIFE DISAPPEARED. WELL YOU ARE NOT ALONE IT HAPPENS TO A LOT OF PEOPLE. INSTEAD OF DATING SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR LOOKS TRY DATING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE QUALITIES THAT AREN'T SURFACE DEEP.  AN AMBITIOUS PERSON ALWAYS WANTS TO KEEP REACHING HIGHER LEVELS AND IS ALWAYS TRYING TO MAKE THINGS GREATER. AMBITION IS ONE SEXY QUALITY!!

TRAGEDY OR A GOOD THING

BREAK UP TO MAKE UP FIGHTING TO F*CKING...EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT THIS IS THE CYCLE MANY RELATIONSHIPS GO THROUGH. HOW MANY TIMES ARE WE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH CONSTANT FIGHTING AND BREAKING UP BUT TWO MINUTES LATER ITS BACK TO NORMAL. IN PAST POST I MENTIONED THAT COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO EVERY RELATIONSHIP WORKING. WELL NOTHING HAS CHANGED ABOUT THAT STATEMENT, IT CRAZY HOW PEOPLE FIGHT BUT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF CONFRONTATION OR REJECTION OR WHAT EVER THEY SWEEP THE PROBLEM UNDER THE RUG. GUESS WHAT ONE DAY YOU GOING TO TRY TO MOVE OUT THE APARTMENT TO A BIGGER HOME AND THE RUG WILL BE ROLLED UP AND THAT DUST UNDER THE RUG WILL STILL BE THERE. NOT SOLVING PROBLEMS WHEN THEY ARE PRESENTED IS LIKE RELATIONSHIP SUICIDE. ITS GOING TO BITE YOU IN THE ASS LATER AND WHEN IT DOES COME LATER THERE WILL BE MORE DUST UNDER THE RUG THAN WHAT WAS THERE BEFORE. WE HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL OF THE SITUATIONS THAT WE PUT OUR SELVES IN, NO MORE IGNORING  THE PROBLEM ATTACK IT DEAD ON. DON'T LEAVE PROBLEMS UNATTENDED NOR SHOULD YOU LET THINGS GO THAT ARE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR YOUR PERSONAL VALUES OR WHAT YOU BELIEVE. IF WE DON'T TAKE CONTROL WE WILL BE IN CONSTANT DENIAL OF WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON AND THAN WHEN ITS OVER REGRET AND RESENTMENT WILL EAT YOU ALIVE.  THOSE WHO TAKE CONTROL WILL BE SUCCESSFUL AND THOSE WHO DON'T WILL CONSTANTLY THINK "I WISH I DID IT DIFFERENTLY" !!

BEING THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE

THE LOVE OF SELF IS COMMON FOR MOST PEOPLE BUT ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF? THE ARMY SLOGAN IS "BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE". PEOPLE MAY SAY THIS, BUT DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. TAKE A MOMENT AND SIT TO THINK OF HOW MANY TIMES A DAY YOU SAY SOMETHING BAD ABOUT YOURSELF

EXAMPLE:

"MY HAIR LOOKS LIKE SHIT"

"I FEEL I LOOK UGLY IN THIS OUTFIT TODAY"

"I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT SO I CAN LOOK LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS"

"I FEEL UGLY TODAY"

'I'M TO DARK SKIN"

ECT.

WE SPEND MORE TIMES PUTTING OURSELVES DOWN THAN YOU THINK.

HOW CAN SOMEONE LOVE YOU WHEN YOU YOURSELVES HAVE NO LOVE FOR YOU, AT TIMES WE PRIDE OURSELVES ON THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS INSTEAD OF OUR OWN COMMENTS ABOUT OURSELVES. I FIND THAT WOMEN HAVE THIS PROBLEM MORE THAN MEN. WOMEN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM TEND TO VIBE OFF THE COMMENTS OF OTHERS BUT ARE ALWAYS DOWNING THEMSELVES OR THEY ARE IN CONSTANT SEARCH OF APPROVAL OR LOVE TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION.

WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMY, SELF RESPECT STARTS FROM THE HEART AND REALIZING THAT YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT PEOPLE SAY, YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT THAT BOY OR GIRL MAY WANT FROM YOU PSYCHICALLY, YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT SOCIETY TELLS YOU TO WEAR, YOU ARE MORE THAN THE CONSTANT APPROVAL OF OTHERS.

PRIDE AND SELF RESPECT GO A LONG WAY YOU MAY NOT REALIZE BUT THE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ARE THE ONES THAT THRIVE AND MAKE IT TO THE TOP. GET OUT OF THE WAY OF YOU BEING GREAT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE. IF YOU CAN'T LOVE YOURSELF YOU CAN NEVER FULLY UNDERSTAND HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE!

Love or Money

Do you want him/her for money or for love. Security comes in different forms, love, money, physical, or emotional. We do a lot of things based on what comforts us or gives us a sense of security. Do you want to be loved for your money or do you want to be loved for the emotional attributes that you posses. Physical attraction is the one security that most people fall into so easily, we get into relationships because there is such a great physical attraction but then later on down the road you realize that there is no substances to the relationship except physical attraction and than you get bored and want to leave. Most people cheat because they aren't getting the emotional security from there partner. The love of money come into play when someone wants to be kept, or want to portray a certain picture to the public or may have felt that they gave so much in previous relationships that they deserve to live a life of comfort. Take time to understand yourself and what you want, chasing after money can be satisfying and also desolate of emotion. chasing after physical attraction ends with boredom. chasing after love....I don't know I've never tried:)

NO MORE NO LESS

Men have created the get away card, you may ask what does that mean. Well it's simple the card has a motto that say's (Do No More and No Less). These crafty beautiful creatures of God have done something explosive. Ever wonder why men never get slack from there parents or girlfriends or friends in general its quit simple, they do exactly what there are ask, no more no less. Ever feel that when your brother or boyfriend or friend does what you ask but you still are upset, but than you realize you can't be upset he did everything you asked him to do. It makes you upset because you want them to go above and beyond what was asked. Men are simplistic in there actions but some are very aware of the things and situations around them. They do what they have to do to shut people up or to get out of the situation.

Example:

Girlfriend - Take out the trash

Boyfriend - Ok

(later on that day)

Girlfriend - Why is there trash in the yard? Why didn't you pick up the little pieces that feel out the trash?

Boyfriend - All you asked me to do was to take out the trash and I did that.

As you can see here he did exactly what he was asked no more no less, as the girlfriend get angry and picks up the trash herself. As much as we want men to go above and beyond its not going to happen in every situation. No more no less, it eases stress on yourself and cause havoc for the other person(s). You should try it do no more and no less, give them exactly what they ask for!

WOMEN CAN PLAY THE GAME JUST AS GOOD AS A MAN!

In the mind of a women we are complex in ways we can't even understand. It's crazy how when women do what they want they get labeled disrespectful things, but a man is a hero - well times have changed. women have evolved into creature of self karma(CREATING HELL FOR SOMEONE THEY THINK DESERVES IT). Some of us choose to deal with our problems and move on, some don't have the ability to let go of anger they may have towards the opposite sex. We have taken on actions of a men, playing cards and playing men. If you thought it couldn't be done your a fool. Be careful how you treat the women in your life one wrong word or action can cause a rippling effect through the mind of a women. We are just as savage and can play the game twice as great as you men can. If that girl comes your way run in the opposite direction because she might be you demise.

Q&A - WHY DOESN'T HE UNDERSTAND ME, WHY DOESN'T SHE GET WHAT I AM SAYING!!

Both men and women are dynamic creatures. We are all made differently and not all things we do will make sense to every one. In relationships we get so caught up in being in love that we ignore the part of the relationship where we are supposed to study our partner to learn there ways, we tend to think that over time we just know each other....WRONG

If you take the time to really focus on each other and build solid ground between each other, over time you will notice that you can see there future movement before they even do it, that is really knowing your partner. Young relationship often falter because both parties tend to get so consumed with being with each other and not really communicating.

Communication is key to any relationship and without it you are just wasting time!!

SIERRA

WELCOME, LETS START SOMETHING NEW!

WELCOME TO THE BLOG OF SIERRA, I'M STARTING THIS BLOG TO HELP OTHERS. UNLIKE MY YOUTUBE AND TUMBLR THIS BLOG IS REALLY FOR THE EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL STATE OF OTHERS. I RECENTLY HAVE BEEN DOING SOME SOUL SEARCHING AND I HAVE REALIZED THAT I HAVE LEARNED A LOT, THIS IS MY WAY OF HELPING OTHER AND IN DOING SO HELPING OTHERS BY GIVING ADVICE ON RELATIONSHIP, FAMILY, LIFE, AND FRIENDS. I HOPE THAT YOU GUYS ENJOY AND LEARN SOMETHING IMPORTANT.

REMEMBER TO LIVE, LOVE, AND LAUGH AT ALL TIMES

LIFE IS SHORT

SIERRA:)