Learn to let go

Sometimes we try to hold on to things that just aren't good for us. Is it that we are gluten for punishment, is it that great of a situation. there are a few things we don't think about, we hold on sometimes because we are used to it and are afraid of change, We often think we can fix things and it will get better, or we just don't know how to move on and just feel like this is the best I can do.

Let me explain things for you. You deserve more than a bad situation, you don't have to take crap or stay in a situation that's not good for you ( relationship, friendship, courtship, any type of relationship). In any type of relationship respect is a must and the fight for happiness starts and begins with both parties. No one in this world deserves to be in a one sided situation.

In my personal experience I was holding on to someone who said they were holding on to me but I soon found out he was holding strings connected to someone else and they created another string together. I thought just maybe I would come first and he would put me first but I learn that you just can't fight for place number one either you are or you will always be fighting for a spot. I realized I'm more than deserving of a one and only spot and will never fight anyone who believes I'm not I'm going to keep it pushing until someone see's the same thing I know to be true. The point in all this was to say that if you have to fight to save something more than you spend time enjoying its not worth it. LET IT GO AND MAKE ROOM FOR GREATNESS!!!!