Day 1 Truth

Trurt be told....... It needs to be said honesty goes along way. If you can't be honest you can not have a successful relationship. Yes there is a such thing as keeping mystery but on the important things you should always be up front. This will be the difference between having a great relationship and one that is doomed to fail. For most men its difficult to man up about things in their lives that are not good because with every great girl they want to be that great guy. For woman it is hard to be honest for fear that judgment will follow. Woman have been conditioned to hide their indiscretions and always be seen as pure and good. Both species has the ability to gather bones in the closet. With this being said honesty and truth are one of the bases of a healthy and long lasting relationships.

Anonymous
From Georgia

Its's Time For You All To Get Involved!!

Hey Readers,

I have great news, it is time for you all to become apart of something a little bigger than you. I had this idea to do a 2 week open series of strictly Relationship topics, Ft. you the reader. To be apart of the series all you have to do is follow these simple steps:


1. Write a paragraph or 2 on a specific topic that has to do with relationships or record a video of you talking about said issue you choose. Video should be only 10 min or less
2. Add a topic title so that it can be properly advertised.
3. Email all video or written articles to: Elizabeth.Gatling@yahoo.com
4. Add your name, age and location.
5. If you have a blog and want it to be advertised add your blog name.

I am so excited to see what you the reader have to say about relationships!!

Please remember this is a positive blog people will comment please keep comments and responses positive, lets respect others opinions. Also no cursing and vulgar language in video if so it will not be posted.

Happy Writing and Recording Readers

There is a time for Everything

        I noticed the world spends a lot of time trying to fall in love or being a relationship, which is often the distraction that causes us to miss out on great things. I found myself focused so much of love for the past 7 years that I have missed opportunities that could have resulted in money, freedom, peace of mind, and plain just missed out. Well I'm here to say it's something a lot of us do unknowingly. I got tired of always trying to fix a relationship or trying to make the perfect life with someone else or someone trying to form a life for me that I didn't want so I broke the habit of relationship seeking and stressing, its not worth all the drama and headache. 
        As human beings our first priority should be to God and our second should be to family and third the betterment of ourselves. We have to be committed to getting ourselves together, we have to be business minded and willing to take risk to make it to the top professionally and mentally all the other things of life will fall into place. We as a people spend at least 76% of our lives trying to make a relationship or dealing with one or entertaining the thoughts. Lets focus on what is important, lets be about our business and then everything else shall follow. Let us be there for our families, lets give God praise and  live like its our last and make the most of of life. No more wasting precious moments that can not be replaced!!

Loving You

Loving you is easy I haven't had a problem, loving you is destined your everything bad but good. Loving you has changed me for the better with spice. Thinking of the day that I wont love you I never thought at all. If only life was different I could structure this love for good but this love is selfish and disruptive. I have to love change which mean I have to let you go sometimes a love is the one thing that can destroy you

Dear love Ill see you next time around....

Free yourself!!

I have learned that freeing yourself from people is a form of self therapy. I can't descride the amazing feeling of weight being lifted off your shoulders, its only when you resort back to what held you captive does it go wrong. I made the mistakes of going back to the things that held me down, the one thing that mistake taught me was some people don't change they just wear a mask to hide whats still there. Free yourself of dead weight whether it comes in the form of a boyfriend or girlfriend thats not good for you, it could be that friendship that brings you down what ever it may be free youselves of negativity and start to fill those spots with positive energy, ideas,and people

This is going to hurt!!

Its so crazy how we hold on to people as if they sit on a higher level than ourselves. When it really comes down to it we find out who is a real friend and who isnt. They say some people want you to do well just not better than them. Its true  there are people who think with the mind of fear. They allow their fear to stop them from wishing others well.....sad. The cure for this  disease is simple stop putting people above you, excel at your own pace, do not allow the negative thoughts of others become apart of you. Rip the mental bandage off and start to heal and grow beyond your wildest dreams. Greatness comes from within not from the mouth of others!

Learn to let go

Sometimes we try to hold on to things that just aren't good for us. Is it that we are gluten for punishment, is it that great of a situation. there are a few things we don't think about, we hold on sometimes because we are used to it and are afraid of change, We often think we can fix things and it will get better, or we just don't know how to move on and just feel like this is the best I can do.

Let me explain things for you. You deserve more than a bad situation, you don't have to take crap or stay in a situation that's not good for you ( relationship, friendship, courtship, any type of relationship). In any type of relationship respect is a must and the fight for happiness starts and begins with both parties. No one in this world deserves to be in a one sided situation.

In my personal experience I was holding on to someone who said they were holding on to me but I soon found out he was holding strings connected to someone else and they created another string together. I thought just maybe I would come first and he would put me first but I learn that you just can't fight for place number one either you are or you will always be fighting for a spot. I realized I'm more than deserving of a one and only spot and will never fight anyone who believes I'm not I'm going to keep it pushing until someone see's the same thing I know to be true. The point in all this was to say that if you have to fight to save something more than you spend time enjoying its not worth it. LET IT GO AND MAKE ROOM FOR GREATNESS!!!!